A few months after my surgery, I went to visit Ruth Jacobi. My roommate from the hospital lives at Kensington Gardens, on College St. in downtown Toronto. It's a long-term care facility that evolved out of the old Doctor's Hospital.
John Jacobi, her son, led me upstairs to his mother's room. It was decorated with family photographs and furniture, including a beautiful old carved wooden cabinet. (When you visit a "home," it's easy to see who has family to help them and who doesn't. Some rooms are depressingly barren; the resident sits alone, usually with a TV blaring in the corner. The average length of stay in a long-term care facility is two years, followed by death. Ruth Jacobi has lived at Kensington Gardens for five years.)